Proverbs - Chapter 7

The Seductive Woman. A verse-by-verse study of chapter 7 of the Book of Proverbs. Believersbibleschool.com

Book of Proverbs

Chapter 7

As I have studied each chapter of the Book of Proverbs, presenting to you of my findings, I have learned many new things, even though I have studied the Book of Proverbs all of my 68 years of my Christian life. 

  • As I have studied it this time from such a detailed position, I could definitely see that God placed King Solomon and his teachings of wisdom over his people to be a teacher regarding good and evil, that we all know, but it was also meant for those living under the Law of Moses.  While we, as Christians, can and should glean as much as we can from the Book of Proverbs, which is meant to teach us good from evil, it became so clear that these Old Testament people under the Law have missed out on the blessings that we, as New Covenant believers have, because of all that Christ Jesus has done for us with His atoning blood for our redemption of sins. 
  • While, of course, I knew all that in my head, but I really felt it deep within my heart this time around, and I am so grateful to be a part of the New Covenant - the Church - the Body of Christ.  In one word, I would express it, as GRACE. 
  • I keep praising God that God created me in this time in history, knowing I would be accepting Jesus as my personal Savior and Lord, and so He saved me from the pit of hell.  I am so grateful.

There is a lot of repeat in chapter 7 from other teaching sessions that King Solomon has had with his son and his audience as he sat on his throne.  Because of that, it will be a short chapter.  Today, I'm going to read this chapter from the New Living Translation.  And then I will add my thoughts here and there from this easy to understand version.

Wedding Band or a Phylactery

Proverbs 7:1  Follow my advice, my son; always treasure my commands.  2 Obey my commands and live!  Guard my instructions as you guard your own eyes.  Tie them on your fingers as a reminder.  Write them deep within your heart. 

Tie them on your fingers was a common phrase to mean a constant reminder of commitment.  This is also where we get the concept of the wedding ring - which is placed on the middle finger of the left hand (closest to the heart) as a constant reminder of being committed in marriage. 

  • The Law of Moses also used that symbol centuries later for the Pharisees to place a band, called a phylactery on their left arm in a spiral line, which ended up at the top of the middle finger, which was also a sign and a reminder of our commitment to God that is placed deep within our heart.  He often also placed a phylactery in the middle of his forehead as a reminder that he has the Word of God in his head or his heart.

Let Wisdom Go Deep into Your Heart

Love wisdom like a sister;  make insight a beloved member of your family.  Let them protect you from an affair with an immoral woman, from listening to the flattery of a promiscuous woman.

Again, wisdom should become so deep within you like a blood family member to protect you from any sort of sexual encounter.

King's Solomon's Story

King Solomon, as a skilled storyteller, began to explained how one day he was looking out the lattace of his window and saw a young man walking down the street. The man was young, naive, simple, inexperienced and gullible, lacking in common sense.

This young man crossed the street near the house of a prostitute and headed down the path that led to her house.

Proverbs 7:6-8  While I was at the window of my house, looking through the curtain, I saw some naive young men, and one in particular who lacked common sense.  He was crossing the street near the house of an immoral woman, strolling down the path by her house.

It was obvious he was full of energy, but lacked wisdom, probably newly independent and maybe had just received his pay from work and looking for a good time.  His kind stuck out like a sore thumb, ready to have someone pounce on him.

Proverbs 7:9-15  It was at twilight, in the evening, as deep darkness fell.  10 The woman approached him, seductively dressed and sly of heart.  11 She was the brash, rebellious type, never content to stay at home.  12 She is often in the streets and markets, soliciting at every corner.  13 She threw her arms around him and kissed him, and with a brazen look she said, 14 “I’ve just made my peace offerings and fulfilled my vows.  15 You’re the one I was looking for! I came out to find you, and here you are!

While the prostitute could have settled for just about any man, she seductively looked for a vulnerable young man whom she could lure with her sex and her charm, like a game!  She claimed that she gave her peace offering and made her vows?  What does that mean?  First of all, this prostitute was a Jewish woman who was married.  A married woman while she had her monthly period she was considered unclean and had to become ceremonially clean.  

  • According to the Law of Moses, a Jewish woman was not to have sex with her husband while she was having her monthly period.  She was considered impure in the eyes of the Law of Moses.  In fact, to overcome that temptation for a man to have sex with his wife, the Mosaic Law required women to go to a special tent away from her tent until her period had ended.  It was called the observance of the "Law of Purification."
  • Following the end of her cycle, the woman was to bring a peace offering to offer to the priest, claiming she was now ceremonially clean.  He could now return to her home tent with her husband and be able to have sexual intercourse again, as well as to be able to be joined among the people again as now being considered clean.

This Jewish prostitute was a married Jewish woman, seeking to entice a man while her husband was away.  While she went through the ritual of obeying the Law of Purification, being obedient to the Mosaic Law, she certainly was not obedient to her husband.  Her heart was in sin.  If caught, it could cost her her life, along with the man she had sexual intercourse with.  That was a heavy price to pay, but one that many Israelites played!  

Sexual intercourse outside of marriage was common practice among the pagan Gentiles.  Many Gentile men went to the temples to worship their pagan gods, and part of the worship was having sex with pagan women who were prostitutes of the temple.

Proverbs 7:16-17  My bed is spread with beautiful blankets, with colored sheets of Egyptian linen, 17  I've perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.

Today, this verse might say: "I have a roomful of dimly lit candles, perfumed silk sheets, scattered with scattered deep red rose pedals ready for you."

Proverbs 7:18-20  Come, let’s drink our fill of love until morning.  Let’s enjoy each other’s caresses, 19 for my husband is not home.  He’s away on a long trip.  20 He has taken a wallet full of money with him and won’t return until later this month.”

Fill our love until morning?  Love?  This is not an expression of love.  It should really say, let's fill our sexual lust till morning.  Let's fulfill the desires of our flesh."

So then, what is love?  True love is giving, not seeking to receive.  In making love within a marriage, it is the giving of oneself to please the other.

21 So she seduced him with her pretty speech and enticed him with her flattery.  22 He followed her at once, like an ox going to the slaughter.  He was like a stag caught in a trap, 23  awaiting the arrow that would pierce its heart.  He was like a bird flying into a snare,  little knowing it would cost him his life.

The trap was set, the bait was taken, and it could be a death trap to the young man as well as the woman.  It certainly was damaging for both of them spiritually, and who knows, maybe even physically.

Proverbs 7:24-27  So listen to me, my sons,  and pay attention to my words.  25 Don’t let your hearts stray away toward her.  Don’t wander down her wayward path. 26 For she has been the ruin of many; many men have been her victims. 27 Her house is the road to the grave.  Her bedroom is the den of death.

King Solomon obviously was trying to warn his son again against the dangers of committing sex with a promiscuous woman.  It is a trap to lure a vulnerable young man down the path of destruction. 

Today we live in a world of sexual immorality of many sorts.  A man or a woman, no matter the age, could easily fall into that trap of sexual immorality.  Countless of homes have been destroyed because of a foolish encounter.   Flattery, tempting flirting at the office, and any sort of flirting temptation is a set up a disaster for a man and a woman.   

God wants to spare men and women, young and old of this bondage of sin.  Surrender to this temptation once and it becomes much more difficult the second time around to resist its temptation.  Each experience of surrender to its temptation builds a habit and more difficult to break the more it is experienced.

But let me say this in closing.  If you fall into that category of having fallen for that sin, please know, we have a Savior who loves us unconditionally, wants to forgive and free us, but know that it will take a heart of repentance to confess it for what it is - a sin!  When you do, then the Lord can do a miraculous work in one's heart to set a person free from this kind of lifestyle.

There we have it for today.

Pastor Joyce Erickson
Believersbibleschool.com

Moments in Proverbs
Proverbs 8:  12-14

In chapter 6 wisdom was personified as a she and doing the talking in this chapter.  If you recall from chapter 6, there are seven things that the Lord hates.  He considers them an abomination.
1.  A proud look
2.  A lying tongue
3.  Hands that shed innocent blood
4.  A heart that devises wicked plans
5.  Feet that are swift in running to evil
6.  A false witness who speaks lies
7.  One who sows discourse among the brethren

Proverbs 8:12  I, wisdom, dwell with prudence, and find out knowledge and discretion.  13 The fear of the Lord is to hate evil; pride and arrogance and the evil way and the perverse mouth I hate.  

Prudence understood means self control and good judgment in the affairs of life.  You will not find wisdom in a life that is given to pride, one who lies, and the other abominations that God has listed in chapter 6.

Verse 13 goes on to say that the fear of the Lord is to hate evil, listing pride, arrogance and man's evil ways, of which wisdom says it hates a  perverse mouth.  The ways of the Lord and wisdom run parallel with each other.

God wants His people to fear Him and desire the wisdom that comes from the fear of the Lord.  God nor wisdom is neutral toward evil, but despises it.

What then is the fear of the Lord?  In Proverbs 1:7, our Bibles tell us that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.  The fear of the Lord is not to be afraid of God and what He can do to you, but to have an awesome and reverential respect for Him at all times, elevating Him to God Almighty, Creator of all things.  God is wisdom, and is far above all of mankind's knowledge and understanding and needs to be reverentially respected at all times.

14  Counsel is mine, and sound wisdom; I am understanding, I have strength. 

You want wise counsel? Go to wisdom.  You want understanding?  It comes out of wisdom.  Wisdom is something every believer should be seeking to live the kind of life God has for you.  

I am presently teaching on the Book of Romans to a wonderful group of people while here in Texas.  We are kind of settled in at the moment between chapters 5 through 8 of Romans, which talks about the difference between law and grace.   

The Book of Proverbs was written by King Solomon under the Law.  He uses the Law over and over again and we have to be careful so that we don't get bogged down by Law.   We, as believers in Jesus Christ, do not live under the Law, but under grace.  But, how do we properly understand grace?

  • There are churches out there that still want to live under the Law of the Old Covenant, forgetting that God sent His Son to earth 2000 years ago to die - to pay the penalty for our sins, so we can live in love and freedom from our sins.  We do not have to live under the Law and its penalties.
  • Then there are churches that live under hyper grace - some calling it cheap or greasy grace to where grace covers all sin all the time and you are free to sin all you want.

Grace is often misunderstood by some in the Church today in that sin is diminished to where some believers think that all they have to do is say I'm sorry Lord, expecting God to forgive, and then go right back out to keep commiting the same sins over again.  Others who misunderstand grace think that because Jesus shed His blood for our sins 2000 years, we are automatically forgiven, so we are then free to sin again and again.  In that, there is no true repentance.  While, yes, Jesus forgives us when we truly repent of our sins from our heart, but that doesn't give us the license to think we can just keep on sinning, knowing God will forgive us over and over again, so we can go right back to our sins again.

While, as believers in Christ Jesus today, we do not live under the Law as Jewish believers did during the time of King Solomon.  The Law carried stiff penalties.  We are so fortunate to live during this Age of Grace where Jesus paid the ultimate price for our sins so we can be set free from the sins that so easily beset us, but that does not give us the license to keep sinning the same sins over and over again expecting God will rescue and forgive us again and again.  The key here is true repentance from the heart.

Once we get it down on the inside of us that God is love and He created us with a plan and purpose, our hearts will want to please Him, seeking to gain all the knowledge we can from His Word.  When we sin, and we will from time to time, our hearts will feel we have wronged our Lord to where we want to repent our sin before Him  and be free of that sin so we can continue with our close fellowship with Him.  Cheap or greasy grace won't even cross our minds, because we love God so deeply and we live our lives by putting our faith and trust in Him for everything in our life. 

A good place to end today.

God bless!

Pastor Joyce Erickson
Believersbibleschool.com

 

 

 

Written by Pastor Joyce A. Erickson

Believers Bible School, Founder https://believersbibleschool.com/