Proverbs - Chapter 15

What Are You Hungry For? A verse-by-verse study of chapter 15 of the Book of Proverbs.

The Book of Proverbs

Chapter 15

Proverbs 15:1  A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.  The tongue of the wise makes knowledge appealing, but the mouth of a fool belches out foolishness.

Have you ever experienced an attack by someone who is angry and you find yourself being tempted to react in a harsh tone back to them?  Or has someone said something to you that didn't sit right and ugly feelings entered your heart as a real temptation to over-react by harshly speaking back?  

There are three things that you can do in this kind of situation.

  1. Fall to that temptation by spouting back in a harsh voice with harsh words, and the problem will only esculate.  This is the mouth a fool, which can be very damaging.  Or...
  2. Keep your cool by not reacting, but you will end up harboring resentment inside, and now you have to deal with unforgiveness.  Or...
  3. Let it go by giving all those feelings to God, and speak gently with a soft tongue in response to deflect the anger that is already at hand.

God's wisdom shows us the value of a soft tongue, which can turn away wrath and stop a situation from getting out of hand.  Using a soft tongue with Godly wisdom can even be a matter of life and death in certain situations.  Again, we need to gain and understand Godly knowledge to walk in Godly wisdom.

The Lord is watching everywhere, keeping his eye on both the evil and the good.

  • God is omnipresent in that He is everywhere and sees everything.  God even sees the heart and motives of all men.  Nothing escapes or can ever be hid from God. 
  • God takes note of the good and the evil.  As such, He will bless and reward those who do good, but He will also deal with evil according to His righteous judgment.  We may not see all judgment executed on earth, but a day will come when everyone will be judged by God.  The good to rewards and the evil to punishment.
 

Gentle words are a tree of life; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit.

  • The NKJV render these words to say "a wholesome tongue is a tree of life...in other words, a tongue that speaks out of wisdom is like a tree that continually brings life and bears fruit. There is power in the tongue - both to speak forth life or speak forth death. 

Only a fool despises a parent’s discipline; whoever learns from correction is wise.

  • A child who rebels against his or her godly parents discipline is rebellious and a fool.  This child is setting him or herself up for a lifetime of rebellion toward authority.
  • If the child, however, chooses to learn from the correction of his or her parents, that is not only a blessing for the parents, but a wise lesson learned for the child.  Respect for those in authority over you needs to be learned early in life.  

There is treasure in the house of the godly, but the earnings of the wicked bring trouble.  The lips of the wise give good advice; the heart of a fool has none to give.

  • In principle, wisdom and godliness, along with hard work, tend to work together to bring prosperity.  Prosperity, however, isn't just wealth.  It can cover every area of life - both physical and spiritual.  What King Solomon is talking about is more spiritual than anything else.  A spiritually prosperous person lives in peace and harmony with the Lord, himself and purposes to love those around them.   As such, their life is filled with treasures beyond.
  • Those who have knowledge, along with wisdom are the ones who can give out good advice.  They generally enjoy helping others by sharing that knowledge.
  • A fool, on the other hand, has not learned what is needed to become wise; therefore has nothing to give out. 

The Lord detests the sacrifice of the wicked, but he delights in the prayers of the upright.  The Lord detests the way of the wicked, but he loves those who pursue godliness.

  • In 1 Samuel 15:22, the Word of God tells us that obedient is better than sacrifice.  In Bible times, the Jews offered a lot of sacrifices to please God.  Much of it wasn't from the heart, however!  It had become a religious ritual, and displeasing to God.  God wants our heart and obedience.  For if the heart is right with God, obedience will follow.  All the sacrifices in the world would not please God if faith and obedience were not at the source.  

    Remember the Sadducees and the Pharisees in the New Testament?  Everything was about religion, following the Law was a religion, not a faith in God.  That was not what God had intended for the Law to be.  Jesus called these religious leaders of that day white-washed seplachures (which means tombs) and their works were dead, but painted white to cover up what they really were.

  • Is today any different today?  So then the question is asked.  How do YOU please God?  Does works before faith take over our life, thinking we can satisfy God by doing certain things for Him?  I go to church, teach Sunday school, be nice to our neighbor, sing in the choir, even give to the poor, etc., etc., etc. 

    The Bible tells us in Ephesians 2 that we are saved by our faith, not any sort of works.  In Hebrews 11, it tells us that without faith we will never please God.  Then out of our faith, we want to be obedient to the Lord because we know that it pleases Him.  James 2 tells us that faith without works is dead.  Really, for those who sacrifice without faith, it is an abomination to God.  It is detestable in God's eyes, which by now we know He considers as wicked or evil.
  • But as Hebrews 11 continues to tell us - those who come to God out of faith, He delights in their presence.  And when we come to God in prayer, we must believe - for without faith, it is impossible to please God.  God loves when we come to Him in faith to seek after Him.  He wants us to pursue godliness; for He despises those who detest His ways.

Proverbs 15:10  Whoever abandons the right path will be severely disciplined; whoever hates correction will die.

  • Again, I am reminded of Proverbs 3:5-6 in that we are to trust in the Lord and not lean on our own understanding.  By acknowledging Him in all our ways, He then directs our path in life. 
  • For those, however, who choose to abandon nor refuse to walk on the path that God directs for them, and they go off on their own, life will be their teacher and discipliner, and that can be very harsh.  In some cases, it can even be a matter of life or death, depending on the choices made.  For the rebellious towards God, even correction will not bring them to change their ways.  Their eternal future will definitely be death - judgment and punishment for their ways.

11 Even Death and Destruction hold no secrets from the Lord.  How much more does he know the human heart!

  • God as an all-seeing (omnipresent) God sees and shows Himself everywhere - even the depths of hell and all of its horrors.   Sometimes man thinks that what he cannot see, it isn't as bad as what has been protrayed.  If we could see the flames of hell, like I did when I drowned (see video on Proverbs 1:20-23) you would realize the intensity of those flames.  Hell is real and it is a terrible place to go.  I don't want anyone to go there and suffer forever.  All this to say that God as the omnipresent and omniscient (all knowing) God, He even sees and knows the heart of everyone who has ever lived.  He is our Creator, and such knows everything about us.  As such, it is even more His desire that all men be saved and come to the knowledge of the Truth (1 Tim 2:4).   

12 Mockers hate to be corrected, so they stay away from the wise.

  • Again, the scoffer, or fool hates to be corrected.  They then in return despises the ones who gives out the correction.  Sadly, the more one rebels against God and those in authority, the greater the crime rate becomes.  Today, as we see more and more rebellious children, crime in children are increasing as well.  How then important is it to train up a child (Proverbs 22) in the way he should go.  That means the parents need to be trained in the ways of the Lord first in order to train their children.

13 A glad heart makes a happy face; a broken heart crushes the spirit.

  • Many times you can see a person's heart by looking at their countence.  If a person is either happy because of their circumstance, or they live with joy in their heart, it shows on their face.  Even their very presence exuberances what they have in their heart.  
  • When sorrow fills the heart, the person's countenance also shows that.  When sorrow is so deep, and there is so much hurt and despair, it tears away at the spirit.  That when we hear the phrase "he has a broken heart." 

14 A wise person is hungry for knowledge, while the fool feeds on trash.

  • It becomes apparent who is the person who seeks after knowledge.  They are the ones want to learn.  They are the curious people always wanting to know the answers.  As a child, I was always one of those kinds of kids.  I was always asking why, why why!  I was selective in my curiousity, however, because believe you me, there are a lot of things that I still feel dumb and stupid about.  But in my curiousity, I often got teased as a child.  Why, why, why - and they would say, "do you have to ask so many question?"  I had one child who was just like me as well. 

    The learner is a reader, researcher, and not afraid to ask questions.  The more they learn, the more they want to learn.  Most of them become lifetime learners.  I know for me, as a believer, called to be a teacher, I want to know everything about the Bible.  I certainly don't claim to have all truth, but I do seek to learn.
  • In today's society we have more things than ever to distract us from learning:  Cell phones, TV, sports, partying, gambling, and the list goes on and on.  Most of these things are not bad in themselves, but a lot of these things are done in excess taking us away from bettering ourselves in learning.  Allowing ourselves to overindulge in all those things that surround us all the time without seeking out Godly wisdom then becomes foolish.  
  • Remember, first comes knowledge, then seek to understand what you learned so that you can operate in the wisdom of God.

15 For the despondent, every day brings trouble; for the happy heart, life is a continual feast.

  • For one who is depressed and despondent, he or she looks at life in a negative way.  As such, each day brings its own set of troubles, which can affect every area of life.
  • One who has a happy heart looks at life from the bright side of life.  Life is good and one to be celebrated everyday.

16 Better to have little, with fear for the Lord, than to have great treasure and inner turmoil. 17 A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate.

  • Those who walk in Godly wisdom fear the Lord with reverence, honor and respect.  They are generally more satisfied with life in general than someone who strives and struggles on their own to be prestigious and materialistic.  Those who have a lot of material wealth generally have more inner struggles to keep what they have while they struggle to gain more.
  • In that same way, a person is much better off eating a humble dinner of vegetables, or as the NKJV says "herbs" with someone you love rather than eat an extravagant meal filled with steak and rich food with someone you hate. 

18 A hot-tempered person starts fights; a cool-tempered person stops them.

  • A hot-tempered person is a person who is filled with anger and wrath in his heart ready to explode given the opportunity.  As a result, fights often begin by those who are hot-tempered.  
  • One who walks in wisdom is slow to anger, keeps a cool head, and has a way of bringing peace to contention instead of stirring up strife. 

19 A lazy person’s way is blocked with briers, but the path of the upright is an open highway.

  • A lazy person is one who doesn't have the gumption to get up and do the tasks at hand.  Now, we are not talking about those who are ill or have disabilities that prevent them from getting to do their chores.  In today's society, you might a lazy person sleeping when things need to get done, watching TV excessively or other things that would stop them from completing the daily tasks that need to be done in life.  It is almost like they have a brier patch of thorns surrounding them and they are blindly trapped in the comfort of their laziness.  Thus, life becomes a constant stream of trouble of which he is too lazy to correct.  If the work has to get done, then someone else will have to do it.  God considers laziness a sin.

Charles Spurgeon once preached a sermon on "The Hedge of Thorns and the Plain Way," using this scripture verse as his text.  He centered on spiritual laziness.  He stated that a spiritual lazy person was too lethargic to argue against the truth that condemns him, even though he may nod in assent, but that nod is a nod of sleep.  He then stated:

  • His spiritual life is lived as if he were asleep.
  • He once gave an effort to forsake sin but did not follow through.
  • His spiritual life is a hard way, full of thorns.
  • Spiritual things seem long and dreary.
  • The Christian life is full of thorny perplexities, problems, and misery.
  • He may find that his way to heaven is blocked.

Life for the righteous wise person runs much smoother and more efficient.  They are hard workers, like that of the ant as we have studied in Proverbs 6.

20 Sensible children bring joy to their father; foolish children despise their mother.

  • Sensible or wise children who have been taught godly wisdom by godly parents will become wise themselves unless they choose to become rebellious toward the correction of their parents.  A wise or sensible child brings joy to the father because many blessings come from raising a godly child.  As such, the father takes pleasure in how his child grew into a wise adult. 
  • A foolish child who rebels against their parents brings disgrace to both parents, but it will bring grief to the mother because she is the one who spent most of the time with the child nurturing him or her in all aspects of life, while the father taught them the wisdom that they needed.  

21 Foolishness brings joy to those with no sense; a sensible person stays on the right path.

  • A good word for foolishness here is folly, which means lack of good sense and discernment.  The fool in his folly finds joy in his own lack of good sense.  Sadly, they will continue to experience bitter consequences because of the choices they make - yet, they will still continue in their folly.
  • A sensible man, or one of understanding walks in wisdom - the godly wisdom that we have learned about througout Proverbs.

22 Plans go wrong for lack of advice; many advisers bring success.

  • There is wisdom in the counsel of many.  This is especially true when someone is overwhelmed and confused.  For fear of making a rash, unwise decision, it is wise to go to others who are wise or wiser to help you sort out if what you are planning on doing is the right thing to do.  Even when you have made the decision to move forward, it is still wise to get validation from other wise people before you make that first move.  As such, you stand a much better chance of success.

23 Everyone enjoys a fitting reply; it is wonderful to say the right thing at the right time!

  • A word needed at the right time has the potential to bring joy to the receiver who needed it at just that particular time.  In other words, not only are the words spoken important, but the timing of when the words are spoken is a powerful force in ministering life to someone.

24 The path of life leads upward for the wise; they leave the grave behind.

  • As one gains more and more wisdom, life keeps improving because of the accummulations of right decisions made along the way.  In the spiritual sense, the more we learn and walk in godly wisdom, the closer we draw to the Lord while we live from glory to glory (2 Cor 3:18).  Heaven and the things of the Lord become more real and hell becomes more and more distant behind us. 

25 The Lord tears down the house of the proud, but he protects the property of widows.

  • Those who choose pride as a way of life sets themselves up by living a life against God (Jms 4:6 and 1 Pet 5:5).  Remember, God calls those who walk in pride  as an abomination.  That was the same sin that tripped Satan up, and will be the one that will send him into the Eternal Lake of Fire for all eternity.  God will not permit these kinds of people to live in their pride for so long before He steps to tear down.  
  • The opposite of the proud are the needy.  In that, widows are probably the most needy.  If young enough, these widows are still raising children, plus running a household.  As an older widow, she has no one to take care of her, and her dependence is completely upon God.  Here God tells us the He protects and watches over the widows. 

26 The Lord detests evil plans, but he delights in pure words.

  • Wickedness begins by the thoughts and intents of our hearts.  Out of that comes action.  If we devise evil in our heart, God judges us by our heart as well as our actions.  As Proverbs says:  Out of the heart the mouth speaks.  Therefore, our hearts need to be thinking good thoughts in order for good thoughts to come out of our mouths.

27 Greed brings grief to the whole family, but those who hate bribes will live.

  • Here is where you see the integrity of a person.  Greed for money or power has brought many people down.  Sadly, many people can be bought, such as accepting a bribe for gain for themselves.  This kind of greed not only hurts the person, but eventually tears the whole family down. 
  • The integritous person hates bribes and sets up a standard for himself in that he will not be bribed for any reason.  God blesses those who live by the wisdom of their integrity. 

28 The heart of the godly thinks carefully before speaking; the mouth of the wicked overflows with evil words.

  • Wisdom says:  Think before you speak!  Don't be impulsive to react by speaking before you give thought to what you are going to say.  
  • The wicked could be either one who impulsively speaks whatever comes out of the mouth without thinking, which is how a fool would talk, or the wicked could also be one who speaks forth evil that is devised by the  evil in their heart - again out of the heart, the mouth speaks. 

29 The Lord is far from the wicked, but he hears the prayers of the righteous.

  • Keeping this verse in the context of prayer, James 4:8 tells us that God draws near to those who draw near to Him.  Then in the next chapter (Jms 5:6) it says that the prayers of a righteous person availeth much.  God honors the prayers of the righteous who purposes to draw near to the Lord.  On the other hand, those  who pray contrary to the will of God, which we know God considers wicked or evil, that God will not listen to those prayers. In that way, God is far from those who think contrary to the will of God or wickedly.

30 A cheerful look brings joy to the heart; good news makes for good health.

  • Have you ever been worried or concerned about something to where you have actually become sick?  If you were ill and then you go to the doctor to only find out that everything is fine?  Suddenly, you feel better.  You find yourself smiling again to where you have a cheerful heart.  So what I am saying is that good news makes the heart so much lighter.  It is amazing how good or bad news can actually affects you physically. 

    That is why we need to continuously encourage ourselves with the Word of God.  The Word of God brings life and whatever we need in life.  We take a promise in the Word and we meditate on it day and night as Joshua 1:8 tells us. 

    • The meaning of mediate means far more than just thinking.  It means to mutter repeatedly. 
    • So if we take a promise in the Word of God that is meant to encourage us, we mutter the promises over and over all day long until we are encourage in our heart.  Then the joy of the Lord becomes our strength.

31 If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise.  32 If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding.

  • When someone comes to you in an honest way to give you constructive criticism, do you rebuke it, dismiss it, listen to it, and then pray and ask God to see if there is any truth to the criticism?  To the one who listens humbly and graciously and then goes to prayer to ask the Lord if there is any truth to that criticism is wise.  Then if God tells us that the criticism was correct, what are you going to do about it?  If you are wise and willing to make the needed change or changes, God is right there to help you.   As such, you and probably others will be blessed for your obedience. 
  • If you reject the corrective criticism; however, the testing of your character will be exposed, and you will stay in whatever situation you have put yourself in.  This is not wise and you could have dire consequences for yourself and maybe others as well.  

33 Fear of the Lord teaches wisdom; humility precedes honor.

  • We have learned over and over that those who have an awesome, reverent, and respect for God is part of walking in the wisdom of God.  Knowing how much God hates pride, and the importance of its opposite is humility, we know that an important part of the fear of the Lord is walking in humility.  God looks for the humble at heart.

God bless!

Pastor Joyce Erickson
Believersbibleschool.com

Written by Pastor Joyce A. Erickson

Believers Bible School, Founder https://believersbibleschool.com/